Emotional Trauma Patterns

Everyone comes from a dysfunctional family unless you grew up in a magic kingdom with angels as parents. We can’t escape differences of opinion while developing personalities as children. Nothing that happened during childhood was your fault, and you did not create events to make your parents angry, abusive, or uncaring.

Children are sponges gathering knowledge and absorbing their environment from 0 to 10. It’s here that your foundational consciousness develops. Your parent’s beliefs essentially program you, along with clergy, fashion magazines, friends, and other adults, until consciously changed at some point in adulthood. Fear rises from thinking, “I’m not enough,” and “No one loves me.” Children internalize feelings until taught how to express how they feel later in life.heal-father-issues

Different Degrees of Emotional Trauma Affect Children

  • Yelling, shouting, and slamming doors
  • Cigarette smoke and pot smoke
  • All forms of punishment
  • Left alone as a child
  • Narcissistic mother
  • Absent Mother or Father
  • Alcoholic father

Everything learned sinks into the subconscious mind, and becomes your foundational consciousness and, over time, becomes your guide in life. Emotions and over-thinking wind the mind into a frenzy of emotional stories. To live happily, successfully, and spiritually, childhood conditioning needs reprogramming. Otherwise, you live from outdated beliefs about life and yourself. Re-pattern the mind so you live in balance on your spiritual journey.  Now more so than ever, we are learning how vital childhood experiences are to peace of mind.

Body Trauma

  • Car collision
  • Hit and yelled at
  • Sexual abuse and rape
  • Frightened unexpectedly
  • Sudden events
  • War and explosives

Trauma is tightly wound in the body due to ongoing fear, and when lovingly touched, the nervous system lashes out with kicks or moans. It’s common for this to happen, and helpful to allow repressed trauma to surface. Address the body with a skilled massage or cranial/sacral therapist who can unwind the body of anxiety and stress

How Trauma Shows Up

  • Gossip and talking badly about others
  • Belittling Others
  • Sadness and Depression
  • Anxiety and Stress
  • Overwhelmed and lonely
  • Angry for no reason and easily triggered

Ways to Recover From Emotional Trauma

Recovering from emotional trauma takes time and effort, and it’s helpful to start a journal and embark on creative projects. The best remedy to recover from emotional trauma is to work through the subconscious patterns to release past experiences and to talk about emotional pain but do not judge anything. Keep a neutral mind.

Think of the subconscious mind like the cache on your computer. Clearing the cache frees up space. So does energy healing work in the subconscious, it frees up the outdated patterns of fear, hurt, and anger. Move beyond past wounds and align with your Soul.

Foundational Consciousness

Your journey in life begins with two critical relationships: Mother and Father. The archetypal Mother and Father lay the foundation of how life unfolds for you. This foundational consciousness starts at birth and stays with you until it’s consciously changed later in life (like now). The archetypal Mother and Father’s principles are not personally the mother and father– it’s who they represent to you.

The mother archetype creates inner self-awareness. She helps develop commitment in love, supportive friends, intuition, intimacy, creativity, warmth, and giving.

The father archetype is the relationship with the outer world of careers, direction, finances, and courage.  Women and men who have challenging times in the world or business owe it to their relationship with their fathers or the lack thereof.